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给孩子一个不可复制的童年

2017-10-30 09:05  来源:客家新闻网

给孩子一个不可复制的童年

□刘秋妤

  近日,笔者的朋友很是苦恼,原本活泼的孩子突然变得害怕小动物,并且半夜常被噩梦惊醒。观察一段时间后,朋友发现,原来这与孩子最近爱看的一部动画片有关。陪孩子看了几集后,朋友惊讶地发现,动画片中的卡通人物有光脚穿鞋、乱丢东西等习惯,而且还有害怕小动物、暴力恐怖等情节。朋友懊悔不已。问及为什么给孩子看这部动画片,朋友无奈答道:其他小朋友不也看这个么?

  给孩子一个美好的童年,是每个家长的美好想法。在不少家长的眼中,美好的童年等同于“其他小朋友有的东西,我家宝贝也要有”。于是,孩子们的童年,成了不少家长不断升级装备的接力赛。哥哥姐姐七八成新的衣服不能穿,昂贵的早教班必须报名,其他小朋友有的酷炫玩具也不能少、商场儿童游乐场肯定得去……

  让孩子拥有幸福的童年,初衷美好。然而,不少儿童面临着“相似的童年”的尴尬。更令人担忧的是,在许多家长“形式大于内容”的推动下,孩子的童年看似得到了很多,失去的却更多。不加选择地给孩子提供玩具,殊不知闪光弹力球、牙签弩等玩具给孩子带来的危害;缺少节制地让孩子玩电子产品,潜在地培养了一批不愿与外界接触的小“网虫”;频繁地带孩子去各种游乐场,却不认识周围的一草一木;过早地给孩子报各种兴趣班,给孩子的童年欢乐打了折扣……尼尔·波兹曼在《童年的消逝》一书中这样写道,“因为媒体的发展,成人垄断信息的局面被打破,不加制约地将所有信息都强加给了所有人,童年不复存在?!辈ㄗ嚷墓鄣愎诒?,但这样的担忧引人深思。

  置身于物质极大丰富、信息飞速发展的时代,相较以往,我们可以给孩子提供的东西更多。然而,不管时代怎样变化,为人父母带给孩子最重要的东西,绝不是更好看的衣服、更酷炫的玩具,而是陪伴孩子时的温情与欢笑,这也正是每个孩子拥有不可复制童年的原因。

  孩子的童年,需要你的参与。带孩子走出“如有雷同,纯属巧合”的童年“泥潭”,让孩子看见不一样的风景,给孩子一个不可复制的童年。

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